Christmas Spirits?

A few days before Christmas I was wrapping presents late at night.  The children were all asleep and behind a closed door, my husband had stepped into the front room.  I saw a grey shadow unmoving in front of the closed door.  I knew it was a man although I cannot describe any features.  I was completely unafraid and after watching for less than a minute I looked down to put down the gift I was in the middle of wrapping.  In that moment my husband came in and the shadow was no longer there.

On Christmas afternoon I was putting some presents on the shelf next to my bed.  Someone was clearly sitting on the other side of the bed.  Pillows pushed up against the wall, her back against the pillows & her legs on the bed, not flat but relaxed.  She appeared to be reading or at least looking at something in her hands although she looked up at me.  Again there were no identifiable features, she was all translucent grey; distorting but not obscuring what was behind her.

There is no point other than to tell someone, if you have any ideas or questions let me know.