The cognitive dissonance of “person-first” references to #autistic people

I have just read this & realised there is no better way of expressing this important message.

Published by autistsix

An autistic woman married to an autistic man trying to raise 4 autistic daughters in a neurotypical world

8 thoughts on “The cognitive dissonance of “person-first” references to #autistic people

  1. I was always trained to speak of the person first and the “disability” second. I’m sorry to use that term. My training was wrong and I have been using the term autistics. I’m so happy that I have found a community of autistics to set me straight. Keep educating everyone including the people who work in schools and support your community in other ways.

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    1. Even we autistic people are divided amongst ourselves. I don’t mind except when people (therapists or bureaucrats) insist I use their language. Autism is so complex; it can be invisible but the actual brain is different, so the differences can be incredible. As long as people on both sides keep open minds things will continue to get better. 🙂

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      1. I’m always on your side. Just tell me what you need. I appreciate hearing what is important to you. One of my students is non-verbal and I try so hard to understand him. Your perspective is very enlightening.

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      2. Something that has always worked with me and with the kids is acknowledging that you don’t always know the right thing to do. It is very empowering to hear and makes your relationship more of a partnership. You are not the powerful one with all the answers, the two of you are working together. I’m not sure it will work but I always think its a good start.

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